Have you ever wondered what women look in a man? Do you think you
have all what it takes to attract any lady? You may be thinking you have all
what it takes but you are yet to get the girl you prefer then may be something
is wrong somewhere.
Choosing a life partner
is something we should careful do. Many ladies seek for real and true love why
some ladies don't care about anything, they just want to be in a relationship.
It is without doubt that love is the greatest values of our life. In order to
settle for a better if not for the perfect man, ladies of nowadays or let me
call them the mordern ladies look for some qualities in men. They set some
criteria a man will go into a relationship with should meet.
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After careful study, I have learnt that the modern ladies tend to
look the following qualities. Though, not all qualities can be met by any man
but should be a guideline for men to look attractive to ladies. If you are
single, still waiting and looking for that lady of your dreams, then the
following are some of the tips that can help you get attracted to ladies
effortlessly.
1- HONESTY
Honesty is the bedrock
and pillar of any relationship. Love can never exist with honesty. Ladies want
a honest man. Saying this means as a man you have to be honest about
everything. Never try to hide to lie about anything. Women prefer and want to
settle down with honest man for life.
2- SELF-ESTEEM
Some men don't seem
attractive to women because of low self-esteem. As a man you need to build that
feeling that makes you feel glad with your own abilities, skills and character.
Self-esteem is called 'self-worth' so if you have low self-esteem then you seem
worthless to women.
3- MATURITY
The level of
maturity of a man is also one of the qualities women like to see in them. A
woman who wants to choose a man as her life partner will look at the ability of
such man to handle problems, make vital and important decisions and also the
ability to overcome obstacles at any period. The wrong assumption is looking at
age, let it to be known to you that the number of your age does not determine
maturity but experience does.
4. APPEARANCE
Appearance is a very important
thing men should take note of, even women should take note of it too. Don't be
obsessed with your dressing or looking all in the name of appearance to attract
women. Do I need to say this, take your bath frequently in order to avoid
unpleasant body odour. Take note of importance things your wears, haircut,
clothes, shoes and others. Your looking says a lot of things about and tells
the world who you are. Women are mostly attracted by men's looking or
appearance.
5. INTELLIGENCE
Ladies dislike dull men.
They don't want to themselves with mediocre. Ladies adore men with sharper
brain box, smart and high IQ. Ladies feel proud of having an intelligent man as
a partner.
6- RELIABILITY
Reliability is also one
of the major qualities ladies weigh up before choosing a life partner. Ladies
want to spend their life with a reliable person. You have to be reliable and
move far away from doubious acts.
7- CONFIDENCE
Confidence is a great
trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by
anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he
believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he
knows he’s right.
There are many other
things our modern ladies want in men. The following are also some of the things
they also look at. - Decisiveness - Upbringing - Career
Dear readers, you can
also use the comment box below to add other qualities or criteria you think our
modern ladies look or want in men.
Too true!
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Thank God i got those qualities lol, great post bro.
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Great post and thanks for sharing
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I'd say that these are true indeed. Financial stability, appearance, and maturity are my top three. :) We can't live with "love" alone; having a stable job/career or business is really important.
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I agree with “maturity” and “intelligence”. It will be difficult to be with a man who does not realize that life is not just about having fun. It`s also about having fun while being mature and responsible. Also, wisdom and intelligence in a partner are essential to have a deeper relationship.
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I think these are important qualities to have for anyone. I think they'd be attractive on anybody :)
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As for me, the traits I always look for a man are their honesty and loyalty. But then, the ones you have mentioned are basically, yes, what most of women look for men these days.
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Pretty much sums it all up! Good observation..
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Why only modern girls? Probably old timers also looked at the same qualities.
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You seems to have a good observation but not necessary all the points ladies look for.
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It normally depends but I agree with what you have on the list. I like a person who is supportive as well, especially since there's still so much that I want to do in my life.
ReplyDeleteI agree! But I thought I would add one more... It's loyalty or faithfulness. Being honest might mean that the man just want to have fun and not commit and he can be perfectly honest about it... and that doesn't make him a good man.
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I guess aside from the appearance. Ladies value personality and attitude.
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So true
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That's the problem with girls, it's either she's into you or you don't mean so much at all. For me, the first thing I look in a guy is "kindness". Next is if I can see my future with him. A guy who knows how to respect and committed. I don't really look for "self esteem", I think its what guys look for a girl. A girl with a self-esteem.
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Haha too true! One of the things I look out for is sense of humour. I think it's important men make women laugh :)
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Can't help but to agree with the article.. NIce one... Haha~ I wanna be a modern lady too!
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These are all good qualities we look for in our partner. Even men look for these things in their future wife.
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This is a nice and a very sensitive post
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